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At the core of Reflexive
Attention Diversion (RAD) is the concept that a
reflexive tendency or “bad habit”
operates to distract the individual from the
“here and now” so that spontaneous expression of
personal taste cannot occur. The bad habit is
usually developed during childhood (or as an
adult, in a case of trauma) by associating
individual expression with the fear that results
from criticism. With repetition, the body
internalizes this fear and “holds back”
individual expression until the behavior becomes
a reflex. The person labors under the
misconception that expression of individual
taste is an offensive act that will result in
angry retaliation from others, or that
differences from others are actually criticism.
As a result, people with the bad habit tend to
take differences of opinion personally,
hesitating to express their likes and dislikes.
Instead, they do what they don’t want, a
condition that prevents them from feeling the
pleasures of life.
While living a monotonous
existence and missing life’s pleasures is
certainly detrimental enough, the bad habit goes
even further. The attention distracted from the
here and now is converted to negative thoughts
that cause fear or discomfort. In an effort to
reduce the discomfort, the individual avoids
expression. Although avoidance does in fact
reduce discomfort, over time it generates
unhappiness, a condition in which the individual
behaves as he or she doesn’t want, with little
chance of gaining pleasure. The person feels
trapped and controlled by this dead-end
existence, and anger ultimately results.
However, the anger is “held back” for fear of
offending. The anger accumulates and is usually
ventilated over some trivial situation, leaving
the individual feeling foolish, guilty, and
self-critical. This confirms in the individual’s
mind that his or her expression must be held
back since it is offensive; and the cycle of RAD
is reinforced and continues.
How Attention Training Works
Attention Training was
developed from the idea that since RAD is
reflexive and therefore out of the individual’s
control, then he or she shouldn’t try to control
it. Instead, the individual should build a new
habit.
The basic principle of
Attention Training is actually quite simple: If
attention directed toward the here and now is
not able to be diverted, then it cannot be
converted to the negative thoughts that trigger
discomfort, and the sequence of the bad habit. The
purpose of Attention Training is to build a
habit of increased awareness of the here and now
by pairing attention directed toward the
environment, with pleasure.
Attention Training is composed of two
techniques:
The Four Points
and Taking
Back Small
Times.
The Four Points
is a practical, common sense technique that has
the individual focus on events in the
environment. This technique immediately works to
reduce discomfort since the individual consciously
displaces attention that is “in the head”
(ruminating on negative thoughts concerning the
future, the past, or what others may think),
back to the here and now, where it belongs. With
repetition, focus on the here and now becomes
easier, and a new habit is formed.
The success of the
Four Points
places the new habit in the individual’s mind so
that it becomes increasingly difficult to have
negative thoughts. This prepares him or her for
Taking
Back Small Times.
Taking
Back Small Times
is a wonderful technique that literally places
the new habit in the body. This procedure trains
the person to be aware of peripheral
information. Once completed, the new habit
actually becomes a bodily reflex, resulting in
little or no chance of relapse.
Attention Training Seminars,
Workshops, and Groups
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The purpose of
Attention Training is to provide
individuals with the new habit in
the most efficient, effective
manner. There are three Attention
Training options designed to help
individuals build the new habit. |
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Dr. Mastria’s technique is
taught in one-day Attention Training Seminars,
weekend-long Attention Training Workshops, and
in Attention Training Groups that consist of
twelve sessions designed to build the new habit
in the participants to a reflexive level. Please
refer to the enclosed material for more detailed
information on each.
To learn more about Attention Training seminars,
workshops and groups in your area call the
institute at 732-681-5200, or Email us at
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